Are you tired of dating men who don't put in the effort that you deserve?

Beating the Odds is my in-depth home-study program where you'll find over two hours of video presentations (and a free PDF copy of my book) where I cover the things you need to know about men, dynamics of dating and relationships, and how to use body language and non-verbal cues to spark chemistry. This video series is packed full of practical tools that you can take away and implement immediately. This is the FASTEST way to get started and you’ll thank yourself so much for taking the first step.

This simple 5-part guide will teach you:

- How to be REAL with yourself about finally taking action to improve your life

- How to easily spot a player and avoid heartbreak

- Why men aren't approaching you (or women in general) and what you can do about it

- How to start taking initiative on meeting more men literally immediately

- How to understand the basics of non-verbal cues and body language (and use it to your advantage)

- Quick and easy do's and don'ts for online dating

- How to develop the confidence and skills to go after what you want in life, and in love

- Much more

I've stuffed as much value as I possibly can into this program for you at the cheapest possible price, so you can easily get access to this valuable information.

What Students are Saying...

"Do you want to make an investment in yourself? Do you want to have clarity in how you approach relationships? Are you confused as to how to navigate the modern dating world? Look no further than to James to give you insight. His sensible, common sense approach is refreshing in the dating games advice proclaimed out there. He professes and lives those qualities that are timeless such as respect, integrity, kindness and most important self respect. Your investment in his coaching program will be well worth it."

- Olimpia S.


“James has helped me so much in so little time, from how I feel about myself to improving my communication with other people and in particular women. His insights so far have helped me feel more relaxed and enthusiastic about life where it relates to myself and other people. His concepts are easy to understand and putting them into practice has been a joy! Highly recommended!” 

– Nick M.

I first reached to James for consulting way back in the spring of 2009. We met up in the city and sat down to go over all the areas of my life that I had wanted to get handled. James helped me eliminate a vast majority of them and in the years since those problem areas have yet to return. It’s amazing how much fear and worry throughout most of my life were turned into self-confidence and assertiveness. I walked away no longer afraid of what people thought, or what my critics had to say. I learned how to define and project myself. I have a few close friends who I used to complain about my sticking points prior to James. I feel to this day they are still shocked and find it hard to believe that I no longer have had them since meeting up with James. It’s important to be a re-assured person."

– Mark A.

“James was absolutely wonderful to work with! He is easy to talk to, genuine, and honest. He has first hand experience to offer which I found to be quite helpful. I elected to work with James to improve myself and my dating life. I was pretty confident I knew what I needed to work but wanted needed a sounding board to either confirm I was on the right path and taking the right actions or challenge me to take a different perspective. I would encourage anyone seeking to improve themselves or their dating life to set up time with James.” 

– Mehgan B.

“I recently started working with James, and I have to say I was completely blown away by his level of insight and his ability to get to the bottom of the issues and limitations that have prevented me from achieving my goals. He listened and within a few minutes was able to pick out the small and the big pieces of the puzzle to help guide towards creating a life I am happy and proud to live and also to go outside of my comfort zone in the way I relate to men within relationships. He had some really practical suggestions of ways I could shift my mindset to have better results. I took down notes from our conversation and I go back to them every day to come up with new goals and make adjustments to my old goals in order to make them a reality. I would blindly recommend James’s coaching to anyone looking to find a relationship, improve the one they already have or build a fulfilling life back up from scratch after a divorce or breakup. Thanks a ton James! You have a life long fan in me.”

– Gina B.

Since my first time speaking with James (September 2017) I felt the sincerity in his voice and genuine care in understanding my “guy” dilemma.  Like any other middle-aged, independent and successful, career-oriented female, I have various insecurities that I now know I can discuss with James and knowing he is not judging me have been the icing on the cake, per se.  James’s advice has been instrumental in my current dating relationship. He literally has helped me translate my guy’s words, actions and texts which has allowed for a “fight/argument free six months.  James has taught me to understand my guy’s actions/body language and to pay attention to what my guy says and not look for “in between the lines” dialogue that I tend to bring in when I over analyze his words, action or lack thereof.  James has been my light at the end of this “dating” tunnel that has been such a nightmare for me and many of my single friends.  Thank you, James.

– Sussan M.

Course Curriculum

  • 1

    Key #1: An honest look at your current dating life

    • Key #1: Taking Inventory of Your Life

    • An honest look at your dating life

  • 2

    Key #2: How to attract men through non-verbal cues

    • Key #2: How to attract men through non-verbal cues

  • 3

    Key #3: How to make every day an opportunity for magic

    • Key #3: How to make every day an opportunity for magic

  • 4

    Key #4: How to avoid being played and facing heartbreak

    • Key #4: Follow your heart but take your head with you (red flags to look for)

  • 5

    Key #5: How to attract the right men and show your best self

    • Key #5: Projecting what you want to attract (online and offline dating)

  • 6

    How to actually make these changes in your life

    • Recap: Putting it all into motion

  • 7

    BONUS: "Unlocking Love" e-book

    • Unlocking Love e-book

About the instructor

America's Leading Relationship Writer

James Michael Sama

Nationally recognized speaker and author of Unlocking Love: 10 Keys to Finding The Love of Your Life (Even If It's You), James Michael Sama is widely referred to as America's leading relationship writer. With over 37 million pageviews accumulated on his website, James has become a go-to expert on dating with outlets such as, The New York Post, The Huffington Post, The Daily Beast, CNBC, and more. James speaks at live events nationally and his YouTube videos have been viewed over one million times. His collective social media following exceeds over 400,000 (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn).

  • If you're ready to take control of your love life and happiness, now is the time.